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Design Mom https://designmom.com The Intersection of Design & Motherhood Wed, 16 Dec 2020 10:52:02 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.6 Tall House Updatehttps://designmom.com/tall-house-update/ https://designmom.com/tall-house-update/#comments Wed, 16 Dec 2020 10:41:37 +0000 https://designmom.com/?p=93827 We’ve had some fun and busy days at the Tall House over the last week. And a big discovery too! I shared all the details on Instagram Stories, and I’m sharing the slides here as well. Lots to tell you! Watch these slides to see…

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We’ve had some fun and busy days at the Tall House over the last week. And a big discovery too! I shared all the details on Instagram Stories, and I’m sharing the slides here as well.

Lots to tell you! Watch these slides to see the discovery we made in the entryway/dining room. I also go over some of our plans for wood trim in the kids bedrooms, and I show you the beginnings of the powder room and utility closet that is being added on the ground floor. (And there’s an adorably dog!)

In these slides you can see the asphalt demolition and oh my gosh is it satisfying.

Can you believe this herringbone brick floor was hiding there, waiting to be discovered? Finding the bricks felt like a wonderful gift from the house itself.

We have a source for reclaimed bricks, so our plan is to add bricks where they are missing. The trick now is figuring out when Christophe the mason is available. He’s so good that’s he’s booked through May! But he lives nearby and can sometimes fit in small projects. I’m not sure if he would consider this a small project, but we’ll ask him. And if he’s not available, hopefully he’ll have someone to recommend.

P.S. — More Tall House updates.

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Hello, Friends. How are you? How was your weekend? We’ve had so much going on with the renovation! So many meetings with tradespeople, some new discoveries, a ton of errands. And I haven’t made time to write a Friday link list post in a couple of weeks. But I miss sharing links with you! So even though the weekend is over, I thought I’d write my usual Friday post anyway.

Here are a few things I’ve wanted to share with you:

The pandemic is affecting periods. Am I the last person to learn about this?

-Yesterday there was an Elf Reunion Script Read to raise money for Reverend Warnick and Jon Ossoff in the Georgia Senate run-off. I was asleep when it happened, but plan to make a donation so I can watch it today with my kiddos (we LOVE Elf!).

-After a 15-year-old girl went missing in Florida, her mother found her in sex videos on Pornhub. Sexual assaults on a 14-year-old California girl were posted on Pornhub and reported by a classmate who saw the videos.

-Anti-human trafficking group Operation Underground Railroad under criminal investigation by Utah prosecutor.

-Breakdancing, or breaking, as the dancers themselves call it, is now an official Olympic sport.

-Motherhood in America Is a Multilevel Marketing Scheme.

-Related: “If you call motherhood “the most important job in the world” but think paying parents is radical, maybe just maybe your ‘admiration’ is just a way to mollify women into working for free.”

-The more we learn about Dan Crenshaw, the more there is to be disgusted by. The VA Office Inspector General reports three witnesses confirm Rep. Dan Crenshaw (R-TX) was the one who planted information in a smear campaign against a female veteran, who was sexually assaulted, to disparage her credibility.

Add-on gifts: Yea or Nay?

-I’m thinking about gifts for writers and I just saw this keyboard, that looks and feels like a vintage typewriter, but works with a tablet. It looks so cool!

Here are some tweets I saved for you:

-Mesmerizing walking competitions.

-We also restrict driving privileges and implement safety requirements in an ongoing effort to lower vehicle fatalities. If you wear a seatbelt, you can wear a mask.

-Hah! A review of Pride & Prejudice.

-I appreciated the framing in this thread.

-These news stories should radicalize us. Let them.

More radicalization.

-The home ownership gap is worse for Black Americans now than it was during segregation.

-German Christmas Ornament Catalogue.

-Why can you still spread the virus even with a vaccine? (This applies to other vaccines too.) This thread is a good simple explainer.

-I did not know this little historical tidbit, but I love it.

-Can’t stop looking at this image.

I hope you had a wonderful weekend. I’ve been missing you like crazy. I’m glad to see you back here today.

kisses,
Gabrielle

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Gift Guide: French Cleaning Supplieshttps://designmom.com/gift-guide-french-cleaning-supplies/ https://designmom.com/gift-guide-french-cleaning-supplies/#comments Wed, 09 Dec 2020 13:00:09 +0000 https://designmom.com/?p=93612 Here’s a small, focused gift guide I think you’ll like. It’s for those of you craving a bit of France, and it’s for those of you who love bringing gorgeous + usable products into your home. There’s an extensive line of personal and home cleaning…

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Here’s a small, focused gift guide I think you’ll like. It’s for those of you craving a bit of France, and it’s for those of you who love bringing gorgeous + usable products into your home. There’s an extensive line of personal and home cleaning tools, that are made in France, called Andrée Jardin. Their products are gorgeous and beautifully designed and manufactured.

I’m not exaggerating when I say I want one of everything. And I like that they have choices! It’s not just one handsome dust pan, there are several great-looking dustpans to choose from. Plus, sweeping surely must be more enjoyable if your broom is from Paris, right? I’ll share 10 of my favorites from their product line below.

Their main website is only in French, but you can find some of their products on U.S. Amazon too — I’ll link to double sources where I can, for my readers in Europe and in the U.S.. And you may be able to find these at a small local shop as well! I buy mine from a beautiful shop in our little town called Weemood.

Dish Brush, 4.70 euros
It’s simple, beautiful, and eco-friendly — there are even replacement scrubbing heads. I’m pretty sure this would make me 30% more likely to do the dishes. This is on my Christmas list. It also comes in a little zero-waste kit with soap and a sponge.
Available on their French website
Available on U.S. Amazon

Feather Duster, starting at 22 euros
They have several sizes and options and they are even better in real life. The feather dusters are what caught my eye when I first saw their product display.
Available on their French website
Available on U.S. Amazon

Soap Cube, 4.40 euros
World-famous soap made in Marseille, France. 100% authentic, often copied but never equaled! It’s natural and hypoallergenic, without the addition of preservatives, colorants, perfumes, animal fats, or palm oil. It’s easily biodegradable and non-polluting.
Available on their French website
Similar on U.S. Amazon

Traditional French Dish Towel, 11.90 euros
I LOVE French dish towels — they often have a red and blue stripe woven in that is so dang charming.
Available on their French website
Similar on U.S Amazon here or here

Dustpan, 29.90 euros
There are a few different collections within their products, and I am mostly drawn to the Tradition collection. But I couldn’t resist this dustpan even though it feels more modern. It’s part of the Mr & Mrs Clynk collection, and comes in 7 happy+beautiful colors (there are matching brooms too!).
Available on their French website
Available on U.S. Amazon

Indoor Broom, 39.90 euros
In France, brooms are sold in two parts. You choose the pole/handle and then you choose the brush you want for the bottom. Andrée Jardin has lots of options for both poles and brushes, depending on what sort of sweeping task is at hand.
Available on their French website
Available on U.S. Amazon

Cotton Shower Sponge, 7.50 euros
Use this in the bath or shower with your favorite body wash. It can be washed and reused like any cotton fiber, so it’s long-lasting too.
Available on their French website
Similar on U.S. Amazon

Hair Brush, 35.90 euros
I don’t have long enough hair to require a hair brush, but this would be a handsome gift for one of my daughters. They’re made with boar bristles which are great for smoothing and natural shine, while limiting static electricity. They’re handmade in France — ethical and responsibly — with beech wood and natural materials.
Available on their French website
Similar on U.S. Amazon

Fabric Brush, 10.90 euros
I haven’t tried this yet and I’m so curious. You use it to remove lint and stray hairs from your clothes and upholstered furniture — they recommend it for car seats too. It comes in 3 different colors and is made of natural rubber, so you just rinse it to clean it off.
Available on their French website
Available on U.S. Amazon under a different brand

Box of Matches, 7.90 euros
How are these matches the most charming thing ever?
Available on their French website
Similarly charming on U.S. Amazon

I’m such a fan of great-looking cleaning products. It’s the sort of thing where I touch and see and use the product every single day — so why not make sure it’s something that brings a smile to my face and is a pleasure to use? Plus, if it’s good-looking, I don’t need feel the need to hide it away. It can hang on a hook out in the open, or live on the kitchen counter and I don’t mind.

Do you have strong opinions on cleaning tools? Maybe you favor a particular color or material? (Or maybe you just like whatever works!) If you have any cleaning tools to recommend, I’m all ears.

P.S. — More shopping guides and gift guides — for your home, for your teens, and lots more.

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Living With Kids: Sarah Neelyhttps://designmom.com/living-with-kids-sarah-neely/ https://designmom.com/living-with-kids-sarah-neely/#comments Tue, 08 Dec 2020 14:53:52 +0000 https://designmom.com/?p=93700 Sarah and her husband, Chris, live with their 2 kids and three dogs in their charming home outside Decatur, Georgia. When they bought the home it hadn’t been updated and they have slowly been making changes that feel modern but that also feel true to…

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Sarah and her husband, Chris, live with their 2 kids and three dogs in their charming home outside Decatur, Georgia. When they bought the home it hadn’t been updated and they have slowly been making changes that feel modern but that also feel true to the bones and history of the home. That, and the fact that Sarah’s husband is a furniture restorer and reseller, means this home is full of warm and inviting pieces that you can tell have a lot of history.

Sarah and Chris also adopted their first child after many years of trying to get pregnant, and then a few short months later found out they were pregnant, so their two kids are only 14 months apart. You’ll love getting to take a peek around and hearing what Sarah has to share about raising kids and how they’ve adapted to the pandemic. Welcome, Sarah!

Our family is me (Sarah), Chris (my husband), Ella (six years old) and Oliver (five years old). Plus three dogs — Snooka, Duggan and June.

Yes, that’s a lot of dogs. All rescues, and our newest family member June was rescued from the middle of nowhere last year when we saw her on the side of the road. Snooka leapt into Chris’ arms when she was a puppy, and earned her name in honor of Jimmy Superfly Snooka of WWE fame. To keep with the theme, we named Duggan after Hacksaw Jim Duggan. And finally, June, who was not named after a wrestler, but was inspired by a favorite band, the Highwomen, so we went old-school country and her full name is June Carter Cash Neely. 

Several years ago, I decided to stop waiting on Mister Right, and just get on with it. I bought a wonderful house, and started talking to an adoption attorney. Then, I got laid off from my long-time job. I was so shaken up and had been working so hard, for so long, that I just took my time in finding another job. I traveled to see friends, baked, worked on my yard and home projects and worked with some non-profits that were meaningful to me.

In that year off, two of my closest friends got engaged, and asked me to help plan their wedding. Another friend had decided to open a restaurant, and the chef, who was new to town, agreed to cater the wedding. The chef was Chris, and he just radiated kindness.

It was honestly love at first sight for me. I was completely tongue-tied. He’s a big burly guy with a big beard, and I’m 5’2”. He was just one year sober when we met. On paper, we didn’t have a lot in common but it was just so comfortable to be around him. I’m not a big drinker, and never imagined I’d find someone who also didn’t drink. And I can’t believe how much faith I had in Chris’ sobriety! It’s such hard work, which I definitely didn’t appreciate at the time. His confidence in his decision to be sober was so strong, and has stayed that way. In February, he’ll celebrate 11 years sober. He’s an inspiration and has counseled many people in our lives about addiction. I’m so proud of him.

We realized that we actually crossed paths about two years before we met; it was at a crazy party. I was working for Red Bull, and had some athletes I was hosting. He was partying and definitely not sober. We laugh because we can’t imagine we would have fallen in love with each other’s past selves!

Chris is in the antiques business. He’s focused on mid-century — buying, restoring, and selling modern design furniture, artwork and décor. He’s taught himself woodworking, how to recognize designers and artists, and how to dig deep and research when he doesn’t know something. You’ll definitely see that influence in our home; most of our furniture and art rotates in and out. We enjoy something, then we move it or replace it with some new find. We’ve already changed artwork in the kids’ bathroom and our bedroom since these photos were taken!

I am the Vice President of Strategy for a marketing agency. It’s a dream job. I met the agency founders almost four years before I joined the team; we clicked right away. I knew I wanted to work there but the timing wasn’t right. We stayed in touch, I did a bit of consulting for the agency and I just kept bugging them for a job. I’ve been here for about 4 years now. We focus on Word of Mouth marketing; I help our clients figure out what their authentic story is, and how to share it with the people who will find it most relevant, in an interesting way. We work with clients from big international brands to local start-ups. It’s very collaborative, very rewarding, and lets me get creative and think about weird things on a regular basis. I love it!

Chris and I met a bit later in life; I was 37 when we got married. We got married quickly, and have been married for just under 10 years. I wanted to be a mom so much, but it just wasn’t working out. (That’s a whole crazy, sad, hard, angry, emotional story of its own.) As my sweet OB-GYN told me once: “It’s like baseball. Nobody’s batting 1000, we’re just waiting for the right pitch.” And by pitch, he meant a good egg and healthy embryo.

So, that wasn’t working, and since we were very open to adoption, we went to an adoption seminar just to get the lay of the land. While there, a young woman approached us, chose us to be her baby’s parents and we were in the delivery room for our daughter’s birth about 10 weeks later. Then, a few months after Ella’s adoption was finalized, a “good pitch” surprised us and we ended up with another wonderful surprise and that’s Oliver! They are 5 and 6 now.

Oliver’s preschool went back in-person in June, and I am so grateful that he is having a wonderful Pre-K experience. He’s learning so much and just loves it. And I’m so grateful to the school for figuring out how to get kids back, and to all the parents for following the protocols that make it possible. Oliver is a sensitive soul, a bit more shy, and plays happily by himself. He’s also wildly fearless physically and has two emergency room visits under his belt already. Oliver is kind and sweet, loves to hold hands and is always happy to share. He has his daddy’s blue eyes

Ella shines when she’s the center of attention. She loves to be able to talk to someone, and have any kind of audience. She makes us laugh intentionally all the time, and unintentionally with her funny questions and serious thoughts. She has gorgeous dark curls and a very expressive face; she was such an expressive baby! She is just learning to read and that is a joy. I once told her that when she could read, she’d be able to answer any question she could think of, and that lit her up! She is incredibly curious and observant and has an amazing memory. 

Oliver has a few quirks that were really challenging for a few years. We finally put the pieces together and had him evaluated by a specialist; he has some sensory processing issues. Once we learned about that, and got him into some occupational therapy, he is so much happier! Sensory processing affects how you feel in your body — some sensations are overwhelming, some are underwhelming and some sensations just make you feel uncomfortable. We learned that he didn’t have the same control of his body as his peers, and that it can be overwhelming to him to be in loud places.

I feel really passionately about Sensory Processing Disorder; I don’t think enough parents know about it and it’s something that’s common, and treatable. Just naming what was going on was such a huge relief to us. And then to have treatment that helped him gain more balance (literally) and helped us gain insight into helping him… it’s just been a gift. He will be able to head into Kindergarten right on pace with his classmates, and happy to be there instead of miserable. 

When we met, Chris and I were living in Florida. We both loved treasure hunting at estate sales, and had a vintage-inspired wedding. Etsy was just getting off the ground, and I thought it would be a good way to keep being able to buy fun things, without becoming hoarders. That hobby shop on Etsy turned into Chris’ full-time job, giving him a way to step away from the high-pressure restaurant industry. And giving us the flexibility to pick up and move for my career. 

Atlanta has been very good to us, with Chris building his business and reputation and relationships within Atlanta’s film industry. He’s worked with set designers and has pieces that have appeared on Mad Men, in Hidden Figures, and in Baby Driver. I’m pretty sure that means we’re friends with Jamie Foxx, by extension.

Chris working for himself, has given us the flexibility for me to pursue more responsibility in my career. Pre-pandemic, I was traveling a pretty good bit. He could be the at-home parent. It was hard to leave sometimes, but it was also a nice break. I could be by myself, think big thoughts and get good hotel sleep! Chris also needed to fit in buying trips.

So all of that meant communication was really important. Not just calendars and details but big picture stuff like goals and family priorities. Lots of hard conversations. Lots of compromises and re-imagining what we thought “family” looked like. Ella changed schools two weeks into Kindergarten, and I had to miss her second first day for work travel. That was hard. I cried, asked my Mom to visit and be there for the big day, and then I went to do my job.

Being a parent is really hard. It’s the thing I wanted most in life, for as long as I can remember. I waited a long time for that dream to come true, and then I had to go back to work. That was a really hard time; I didn’t wait this long for them to be at daycare! But, I transitioned to a role that has more flexibility (I recognize that I’m very lucky these days, to have the flexibility to rarely miss a doctor’s appointment or school activity is one of the things I’m most grateful for.)

It’s also important to me that our kids get to see us enjoy, and be skilled, at our jobs. And that we both pitch in to make the home run; Chris does most of the cooking, I do most of the laundry and yard work. 

We live in a great hidden gem of a neighborhood, just outside Atlanta city limits, in Decatur, Georgia. We live about 15 minutes from downtown Decatur (where my office and the kids’ schools are), in an unincorporated part of the city. It means we’re close to everything awesome, but pay lower property taxes. 

The restaurants, the parks, live music venues, Emory University, the CDC… so many smart people and delicious places to eat. I went to college here, and my favorite Chinese food restaurant from back in the day, Fortune Cookie, is still here! And the sesame chicken is still just as yummy.

Our neighborhood was built in the mid 1960s, mostly brick ranches on big lots. Lots of trees and families who have been here for years — in fact, there are a lot of original owners still. Which means we’re one of the youngest families and have two of the few kids in the neighborhood. We love the community, and the active civic association.

Our closest neighbors are really great. They spoil our kids, call us when our dogs escape, and we share tomatoes and cookies back and forth across the street. This year, at Halloween, we had three separate neighbors drop by goodies for the kids since they knew there wouldn’t be trick or treating. And our favorite neighbors volunteered to let our kids come ring their doorbell! So we dressed up, walked down our driveway, up their driveway and the kids got to say “Trick or Treat!” It just made my heart melt!

The one silly thing we don’t like about our house is that we live at the top of a big hill. Cars drive a bit too fast, and it’s too steep for bike riding. But that’s truly our only complaint!

We bought about 4 years ago. Homes today are selling for between $ 250k and $ 350K. We got a great deal, and bought in the knick of time, for well under that. We feel really lucky to have found a neighborhood so close to the city and in a part of town that we love. I went to college at Emory University, and when we talked about moving to Atlanta, I knew this was the part of town I wanted to be in. It’s so diverse and in addition to being diverse, it’s clear the city values diversity. This year’s political movements divided a lot of communities; I feel that this year united Decatur around values many of us held but did not speak out about as loudly as we could have. And this year our city and even our state have stepped up to stand behind diversity and inclusion. It makes me feel really proud, and that we’re in the right place.

Chris discovered the neighborhood, and drove me through it several times. It’s cute, with well-kept homes and a really great retro community pool and tennis court. But I wasn’t convinced. It was 10 minutes further from Decatur than our rental, and restaurants, etc. I was convinced that we needed to keep looking for something in the city. But property taxes are high, the schools are really desirable with home prices reflecting that and we just didn’t find anything we loved and could afford. I said I’d only consider the neighborhood if it was the perfect house. 

Then one day, Chris wanted to drive me past one that had just been listed — he had been keeping an eye out for listings in the community. We pulled up, and they happened to be having an open house; the realtor was just closing up. We hopped out and asked if we could come in, and that was it. We put the car seat down with Oliver still asleep and let Ella patter around. It was the perfect house. We knew it right away. It was in great condition with plenty of space, a great backyard and most importantly, it hadn’t been updated at all. We could invest our time and make it ours.

While we were standing around, whispering to each other about how great it was, the realtor crossed out the sales price on the flyer and wrote a number almost $ 10,000 lower!

It was a whirlwind after that. We hadn’t been seriously looking, so raced through mortgage approval process. And then Chris took some time off to handle the renovations we needed before we could move in — mostly cosmetic, the house was truly in excellent shape. We just wanted to brighten it up, and make the kitchen more functional. Lots of dark pine paneling got covered with drywall, walls painted, the pine kitchen cabinets painted. To save money and to add back in some warmth, we put in butcher block countertops. Chris and friends (shout-out to Todd and Meghan of Atomic Furnishings!) installed LVT floors, the kitchen back splash, and the kitchen counters, a new sink and all new appliances. Chris did the homework of researching and buying the best appliances for our budget. And we went with white because stainless steel just didn’t feel right for this home. 

Painting the kitchen cabinets was not our favorite. We’ve learned a lot since that project and definitely would have done it differently. We found affordable cabinet pulls at Ikea that we think are cool, and have held up great. 

The brick fireplace reclaimed the original beige-y brick for a few years. I was reluctant to take the permanent step of painting it, even though we didn’t love it. Chris finally convinced me and now we do love it! (We used a sprayer. Highly recommend). He built the mantle from reclaimed wood, and painted the inside of the firebox that crisp black. The fireplace doesn’t work (a chimney repair is on the long-term list) but we like the look of it as it is. 

We’ve tackled a few more projects as we have time and budget; one idea we had from the first walk through was to put in a glass door where there had been a window in the kitchen, and add a back deck. We did that about six months before the pandemic. We love the light and the outdoor space, and holy moly were we grateful for that this year!

I don’t feel like a fair judge of the adoption process because ours was so fast and relatively easy. It’s expensive; we were lucky to have family help with the finances. It’s terrifying to take that risk, knowing you might have your heartbroken. But if you’re considering it, my advice is that it’s worth it. Ella’s birth mother was very young, but very certain in what she wanted to do. She never wavered, even when Ella was born. I know she was sad, and that it was scary and hard, because we talked about those feelings, but she was very brave and certain that we were the right match. Ella knows that her birth mother wasn’t ready to be a parent and that she chose us because she knew how much we would love her. 

Before we started adoption, I didn’t realize how conflicted and sad I’d feel. I had always loved the idea of adopting, and had even begun to pursue it before Chris and I met. But once we started down the path, after infertility, it felt like an ending. I had thought I would carry babies and adopt. And then, there I was doing one instead of the other. And I was so scared to be hopeful once the adoption started. Even in the hospital, Ella never went to the nursery; I didn’t want her out of my sight. I actually didn’t realize how much fear I held onto until the adoption was finalized. My advice to anyone pursuing adoption would be to find another person who’s been through it, and trust them enough to share all your fears and emotions. Whatever you’re feeling that feels ugly or weird or selfish or self-pitying, it’s just a normal part of the rollercoaster ride.

The kids are 14 months apart. We had a sweet friend with close-in-age kids tell us that the first two years were going to suck a lot. And then there’d be a light at the end of the tunnel, and it would get better. I am so grateful for that candid advice! Two under two or two toddlers are so much fun! Messy and adorable, and funny and snuggly. They were, and are, wonderful. But, when those sucky times came, it was so helpful to know others had sucked before us! 

They bicker more than I’d like, we’re working on that. Ella loves to boss Oliver around, and Oliver loves to tempt Ella into hijinks. When they play together, and we hear them laughing, it is magical. 

Ella is mixed, and frankly I thought we’d get more curious looks or questions than we do. Another reason to be grateful for our awesome city! Like a lot of white parents, we started talking about race a lot more this year. We’ve always been open with Ella about her birth story, but man, talking about genetics and melanin was a conversation that was tough. We read a great book called All the Colors We Are: The Story of How We Get Our Skin Color. The book talks about where we get our skin color, and we had a conversation about Ella’s skin color and her birth parents’ skin colors. She’s growing layers of understanding about her heritage and her story, and I worry she’ll feel sad one day about our differences. 

Our life has changed a lot since the pandemic. I don’t travel for work anymore, which has made it possible for us to do more projects around the house, and just have more of a routine. Earlier dinner and bedtimes make everybody happier. We had a garden for the first time this year, and that was such a pleasure! 

Schools in our area closed in March, and have not re-opened. We’re doing virtual learning, and school at home was not a success. Ella was miserable, and we hated being the parents and the taskmasters. I learned that I do not have the patience to be a full-time teacher. We’re in a learning pod for now, which is a huge improvement for our social butterfly. Ella loved Kindergarten and school, and soaks up everything like a sponge. She is not flourishing this year in school and I know I speak for a lot of parents when I say this is crushing. I hope she can learn to love school again, when it’s back. I hope I have the tools to help her re-kindle that love. I hope we can go back to school again soon. I hope our teachers are able to adapt, again, and nurture students back to the school routines. 

One thing we did right, was get in lots of outside playtime! The kids had outgrown their first swing set, and we wanted to build a fort of some kind. Chris scoured Facebook marketplace, and found someone selling a really nice wooden play structure. We rented a truck, took it all apart and hauled it back to our house. It took two trips! We were able to get it for about 10% of what it would have cost retail. That is something that has gotten a lot of use this year! We’ve done treasure hunts, lots of neighborhood walks and even gotten in some North Georgia hikes. 

I miss collaborating in person with my team at work, it’s such a fun part of my job. While I’m really proud of how we’ve adapted, I do miss that serendipity of walking into someone’s office to bounce ideas around. 

Chris really had to adapt — from figuring out how to find furniture to restore, to figuring out what people would be comfortable with when buying. But I think a lot of people wanted to make their homes more comfortable once they were stuck there, and Chris has been busy with restoring and selling!

I hope our kids remember a lot of laughter. We try to teach them that laughter and a positive attitude really can change most situations. I hope they remember looking on the bright side, and making the best of challenging times. 

I hope they remember it is colorful, with their art framed on the walls right alongside art we’ve bought. I hope they remember being given a vote in lots of family decisions. 

My Mom once told me that in parenting, saying “yes” was harder than saying “no.” I really took that to heart. It’s so easy to say no to one more book or snuggle, or to say no to playing with slime when you’re in the middle of a task. But saying yes just leads to so many good times you’d miss otherwise! I think being older parents makes us cherish the day-to-day more. I mean, we’re more tired, but I think we do a good job of appreciating our kids. I hope they remember how secure and loved they feel. 

I hope they forget the times when we’re short-tempered or impatient. We do a pretty good job of apologizing when we’re the ones who don’t have good behavior, but I hope they don’t have too many of those apologies in their memories!

I have a list of the funny things they mispronounce and say; I miss those! I miss the chubbiness. I miss the times when they were sick and just being held was a comfort. The way Ella ran everywhere with pattering little feet. The way Ollie’s curls were like a little golden halo. 

I just love their personalities. They’re so funny and unique and fully themselves. They’re so amazing that they make us want to be better humans, too. Use kind words. Be generous. Find adventures and joy every day. You have to put some real thought into it if you want to be decent at this parenting job, and that work is making us better people all around.


Thank you, Sarah! I loved Sarah’s advice about surviving the pandemic: lots of outside time, good neighbors and support, and being okay with struggling. I think so many of our kids are not thriving right now. And then when we’re able to get back to a more normal kind of school we will need to do a lot of work to help kids catch up, or help kids re-engage with the idea of loving learning and school. The more we talk about that the better.

I also really appreciated Sarah being so open and candid about her life not taking the path she might have expected it to. Everything from deciding to look into adoption on her own before meeting her husband unexpectedly later in life, to deciding to adopt, meeting a birth mom very quickly, having a child within 10 weeks and then finding out you’re pregnant a few months later. Life has a way of throwing twists and turns at us, and I loved hearing Sarah talk about navigating that.

What are some things in your life that haven’t gone as planned? What have you learned from having to pivot and make changes when unexpected things came up? How have you learned this year to deal with ambiguity?

SOURCES

Book: The Colors We Are

Book: Don’t Touch My Hair

Hallway Runner

Parent’s Bedroom Quilt

Kitchen Pulls


You can follow Sarah on Instagram here, or follow her husband here. Living With Kids is edited by Josh Bingham — you can follow him on Instagram too.

Would you like to share your home in our Living With Kids series? It’s lots of fun, I promise! (And we are always looking for more diversity in the families we feature here. Single parents, non-traditional parents, families of color, LGBT parents, multi-generational families. Reach out! We’d love to hear your stories!!) Email us at features@designmom.com

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15 Gorgeous Handmade Gift Ideashttps://designmom.com/practical-handmade-gifts-15-ideas/ https://designmom.com/practical-handmade-gifts-15-ideas/#comments Mon, 07 Dec 2020 14:45:00 +0000 https://designmom.com/?p=82517 Let’s talk handmade gifts. My tendency to focus on handmade gifting seems to wax and wane over the years. Sometimes I’m really into it — gathering ideas and supplies for weeks and then setting aside several days to work on the projects. Other times I’m…

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Let’s talk handmade gifts. My tendency to focus on handmade gifting seems to wax and wane over the years. Sometimes I’m really into it — gathering ideas and supplies for weeks and then setting aside several days to work on the projects. Other times I’m perfectly content to buy something ready made.

For those of you who like to make gifts for the holidays, I’ve collected 15 really good ones that I think you’ll love. It’s a wide range of projects, and so many of them are great to make with kids. Especially 4, 5, 9 and 10.

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1) Recycled Mismatched Plates — Painted into a Set. For a gift, I think a set of dessert plates would be fun. Maybe for the holidays with red and green paint? Or Silver and gold?

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2) Tree Branch Succulent Planter. Gift a little set. They would look so good on a desk or windowsill.

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3) Cute Clay Earrings. Two other designs in this post as well.

Gorgeous Handmade Gift Ideas featured by top US lifestyle blog, Design Mom: coding jewelry

4) Coding jewelry. Spell out messages or names or special words using beads to write coding language. Click through to see it in black and white beads too. 

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5) Color-blocked Recycled Jar Planters. All you need is colored twine and jars from your recycling bin!

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6) Half-Moon Pendant Necklace. It looks so luxe. I would totally wear this. And it’s made of hobby clay!

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7) Citrus Sugars. Fun to gift and easy to make. And they smell so good.

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8) Cement pencil holder. It makes such a substantial gift. I like it with and without the dots.

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9) Wood Bead Hair Twists. Really cute stocking stuffers. Or your kids can make them for their friends — put 2 or three in a jewelry box or small gift bag to make a sweet, very useable gift.

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10) Custom Fish Bowl. You make it with a sharpie! It comes with 3 different drawing guides too.

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11) Etched Wooden Spoons. Invest in an $ 15 wood burning tool and we have tons of projects that you’ll use it for.

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12) Pom Pom Bookmarks

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13) Bleached-Out Tees. The possibilities with this project are endless.

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14) DIY Hand Stamped Dish Towels. I love these so much.

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15) Easy Monogram Mugs. These are great-looking. Pick up mis-matched white mugs at Goodwill and make a collection for a family — or gift the mugs to individuals.

Your turn. Do you have a handmade gift policy? Maybe you make handmade gifts for your neighbors? Have your kids ever made handmade gifts for each other?

What handmade gift ideas are you making this year? 

P.S. — More handmade ideas.

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Tall House Updateshttps://designmom.com/tall-house-updates-4/ https://designmom.com/tall-house-updates-4/#comments Mon, 07 Dec 2020 14:40:02 +0000 https://designmom.com/?p=93677 Here are the latest updates on house renovations. So much has been going on since my last update. Progress on electrical work, progress on tile and paint, progress on the laundry room wall, and a new project near the entryway. Come and see what we’ve…

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Here are the latest updates on house renovations. So much has been going on since my last update. Progress on electrical work, progress on tile and paint, progress on the laundry room wall, and a new project near the entryway.

Come and see what we’ve been up to! Or check out the highlights on Instagram — I try to keep them organized by room.

We pulled out an overgrown shrub in the garden that was blocking a door. It was such a challenge to get the root out, and it felt like such an accomplishment when we were done.

We took the radiators to go get sandblasted. Our plan is to leave them bare metal (with a clear coat for protection). But in the kids bathroom, I would like to have the radiator painted gold. Pretty much all the metal work in the kids bathroom is gold and I think a gold radiator would be fun.

You can see tile progress and laundry room wall excavation in the slides above as well.

Jean Jaques installed electrical wiring in the kitchen, and we’ve decided to keep the current kitchen floors. This original tile is from Winkelmans (the same place where we ordered new tile!) and is still in excellent condition 80+ years later.

Karim started to reinstall the window guards, after he stripped and repaired them. There was carpentry progress from Antoine — with new trim (made to match the old trim) around the doorways that had been moved or changed. Plus more progress on the bathroom tile by Cristophe, and patching on the laundry room wall by Gijsbert.

Lighting for the kids bathroom arrived, and Grant repaired the plaster walls in the kids bathroom.

The kids bathroom is painted! The walls are F&B Schoolhouse White; the wood trim is F&B Charleston Gray — it’s a medium to dark gray that I chose because it works really well with the gray of the tile.

We found a range and matching hood! It’s a used but gorgeous Lacanche cooker. The model is Vougeot in Vert Anglais (or British Racing Green). It’s 1 meter wide. We think it will look really good with the kitchen floor.

Lacanche cookers are very French, and very expensive, and a new one was out of our budget, so finding this used option, in a color that works well in our kitchen, felt like a total score. I think it’s going to be the centerpiece of the room.

Speaking of the kitchen, it’s being painted today! We’re using the same Schoolhouse White on the walls, and Vert de Terre on the trim — it’s a medium green-gray that is somewhere between the cupboard color and the green in the floor tiles. Speaking of trim in the kitchen, we found out the crown moulding (or the cornice) is made of plaster, not wood. So interesting! I didn’t even know that was a thing.

The kitchen cupboards were originally scheduled to be installed this week, but with Covid-delays, it looks like next week is more realistic.

One of the most exciting projects is happening on the main floor. Behind the big front doors, there’s a carriage passthrough to the garden, and we’re changing it up and converting it to interior space.

We’re building some walls and adding a utility closet and powder room (because there is no toilet on the ground floor). The utility closet will house the water softener and the electrical panel, and the closet will share a wall with the powder room. This new structure will create an entry way, and a small hallway that leads to the dining room.

Tomorrow, we have an early meeting with all the tradespeople to go over major next steps and brainstorm any issues that have come up. If I understand correctly, the plumbing team will be at the house for the next two weeks to finish up the plumbing work, which will include things like installing the furnace/water heater, installing the bathroom fixtures, installing the kitchen fixtures, and installing the water softener.

Later this week, we’ll be delivering the rest of the radiators to the sand blaster, and picking up 5 of them that are finished and ready to re-install. (We ordered the Shoulder Dolly and have been using it to move the heavy radiators and the heavy bathroom cabinet, and it works really well!)

Is it really possible we’ll have heat and water by Christmas? I don’t dare hope!

We’re still waiting on a few deliveries that could delay things — like the dishwasher, and the sink faucet for the parents bathroom. And I know there are quite a few decisions I still haven’t made — like more light fixtures, and a sink for the laundry room. But we’re definitely making progress.

P.S. — You may notice that my hair changes color at some point during this report. Three weeks ago, I decided to go back to brown!

P.P.S. — More Tall House updates.

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Gift Guide: Little Items from Luxe Brandshttps://designmom.com/gift-guide-little-items-from-luxe-brands/ https://designmom.com/gift-guide-little-items-from-luxe-brands/#comments Wed, 02 Dec 2020 12:12:16 +0000 https://designmom.com/?p=93549 This is a gift guide for those of you who have older kids who have learned about really high-end brands (often via memes on Tiktok or Instagram) and are really into that whole world. If you know someone who aches for the luxe life even…

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This is a gift guide for those of you who have older kids who have learned about really high-end brands (often via memes on Tiktok or Instagram) and are really into that whole world. If you know someone who aches for the luxe life even when it’s out of reach, I’ve collected the most affordable items from the fanciest brands — mostly from their beauty and skincare lines. Yes, a $ 4000 handbag or $ 2000 trench coat is out of reach for pretty much all of us, but pulling out a Gucci lip balm from your backpack still feels like a mini-luxury.

Let’s jump in:

Chanel Lip Balm, $ 25
Available in five shades.

Chanel Deodorant Stick, $ 25/
There are 8 different options, mostly for men, and several are exclusive to their website. (I’m linking to the one pictured, but if you do a search for deodorant stick on the Chanel site, the rest will show up.)

Chanel Anti pollution Cleansing Oil, $ 45
There’s also Anti-Pollution Cleansing Milk-to-Oil for the same price.

Chanel Multi-Use Glow Stick, $ 45
Four shades available.

Chanel No. 5 The Bath Soap $ 26
There are two other bath soaps available on their site, both for the same price (search bath soap to find them).

Gucci Nail Polish, $ 28
There are 5 shades in their capsule collection.

Gucci Gel Face Gloss, $ 33

Gucci Goldie Red 25 Lipstick, $ 42
The work Gucci puts out is always new and interesting to me. Visit the landing page for Goldie Red 25 to see what I mean — it definitely made me want to buy this lipstick. : )

Dior Eyelash Curler $ 25

Dior Lip Tattoo Colored Tints, $ 30
Available in five shades.

Burberry Lip Gloss, $ 29
Available in 11 colors, or should I say colours.

Burberry Nail Polish $ 23
Also available in 11 colours.

Hermes Glycerin Soap, $ 30
There are a few other soaps in the $ 30-$ 40 range on the site if you want to search them out (just search the word: soap).

From Prada, there’s nothing in the $ 25 to $ 50 range, but there are a few options in the under $ 100 range. And remember: If you’re going to spend $ 100+ on a bottle of Prada fragrance, why not order directly from Prada?

Prada Candy Fragrance, $ 65.

Prada Water bottle, $ 75

Prada Cutlery Set, $ 75

That’s the list — even if I’m not buying, browsing their websites is enjoyable to me. They’re all incredibly well designed. If you’re into this, there are other fun high-end brands you can explore. I chose the ones above because I was guessing they are the names most likely to be familiar to those who have recently fallen in love with the world of fashion.

Two more notes: 1) The idea is to purchase these items directly from the brand when possible (versus going to a department store), so that the packaging that arrives is branded too, which I think is more fun for the recipient. 2) Related, if you’re planning to buy perfume for any gifts this year, I recommend buying it directly from the brands. My thinking is that Chanel perfume is expensive wherever you buy it, so if it’s on your list, why not shop directly from Chanel and get their pretty packaging?

Your turn: does anyone in particular come to mind when you see this list? Do any of your kids search The Real Real each day looking for a fashion treasure?

I’d also love to hear if this kind of thing has no appeal to you. I’m aware that we see the water bottle, and lip gloss, and bar soap, and deodorant, and know we can get perfectly good (even great!) versions at the grocery store for a fraction of the cost. Does interest in fashion brands drive you crazy?

P.S. — From Louis Vuitton, the most affordable thing I could find was in the $ 250 range.

P.P.S. — More shopping and gift guides.

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49 Awesome Gift Ideas for Teenshttps://designmom.com/best-teen-gift-ideas-affordable/ https://designmom.com/best-teen-gift-ideas-affordable/#comments Wed, 02 Dec 2020 07:01:00 +0000 https://designmom.com/?p=82239 Your #1 most requested gift guide category? Teens! This gift guide includes 49 options — 28 of those are $ 20 or under, and 8 of those are $ 10 or under. Lots of great stocking stuffers too. My own teens were a huge help figuring out…

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Your #1 most requested gift guide category? Teens! This gift guide includes 49 options — 28 of those are $ 20 or under, and 8 of those are $ 10 or under. Lots of great stocking stuffers too.

My own teens were a huge help figuring out what to put on this list. They started with last year’s list, got rid of anything that was no longer available (or no longer worth including), and then we added tons of new ideas. 

There’s something here for every type of teen you can think of. I’ve got all the Breakfast Club stereotypes covered, and a whole bunch more as well. : )

Let’s get started. 

Countertop Pebble Ice Maker, $ 465
Okay. I know this one is a splurge. But HELLO pebble ice. If this came with a European plug/voltage option, I would skip all other gifts and get this for Ben Blair immediately.

Old-School Label Maker, $ 10.
No plug. No batteries. Just a tool, some tape, and rad raised lettering that you can stick on jars or books or your phone case. We have a couple of these and they are irresistible to teens and tweens. Heads up: It comes pre-loaded with one roll, but you’re going to want more label tape.

Kate Spade Sailors Knot Earrings, $ 20 (normally $ 50!)
These are so handsome. And I love every time I choose Kate Spade earrings — the quality is excellent, and the earring backs are little gold spades (so cute!).

John Derian Paper Goods: The City of New York 750-Piece Puzzle, $ 17
Introduce them to a really cool artist/designer via a puzzle, while simultaneously giving the family something fun to do after you open presents.

More puzzles from Artisan Books — I highly recommend this Iconic Watches option, $ 15.

Pocket Projector, $ 43.
It connects to their phone via bluetooth and turns any blank wall into a screen. And yes, it’s small enough to fit in a pocket.

Sheet Masks — Set of Twelve, $ 13
Have your teens tried sheet masks? Have you? Put on a movie, put an a sheet mask, and spend an evening bonding. This set has 12 different formulas based on fresh foods.

Button-Maker, starting at $ 225
We invested in this professional-grade Tecre Model 100 button maker ten years ago, and it’s still going strong! It has been used at dozens of parties, loaned out to friends, and has assisted in countless student government campaigns. There’s no electricity here, you’re just looking for a heavy duty well-made machine. Teens (and adults) love designing their own buttons, or making buttons from any random image they find. Note: the 100 refers to the size — our machine makes 1 inch buttons; other model numbers make bigger buttons.

Phone Camera Lens, $ 26
Confession: I want this for myself. Works with iPhone or Android.

Knope for President Card Game, $ 14
A perfect gift for Parks & Rec fans. (Did you watch their covid-episodes filmed on zoom?)

Photo Clip Lights, $ 15
These are so great! You get a string of 50 clips — and the clips are the lights. Perfect for hanging up polaroid pics, postcards, drawings, tarot cards, or whatever your teens prefer to hang on their walls.

Cableknit sweater, $ 22
Such a classic sweater! They’ll wear this for years or hand it down to sibling/cousin. 100% cotton, in red, blue, or oatmeal. It’s on super sale at the moment (not sure how long the sale lasts — the whole site seems to be on major sale!). Choose oatmeal if your teen wants to channel the look of Chris Evans in Knives Out.

Suede Leather Moccasin Slippers, $ 18
Also way into these suede slippers. They come in navy, red, or tan, and you can get them monogrammed. I think a single initial looks best (click through to see more photos).

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Huhuhero Fineliner Color Pen Set, $ 6
In 0.38 mm for a fine line. This is a set of 10 colors, or for $ 9, you can get 18 colors. Perfect for journaling, and based on reviews, these are beloved.

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Bendable Magnetic Pick-Up Tool, $ 6
I didn’t understand what this was when I first saw the image, but when I read the description I thought it was awesome. It’s basically a strong telescoping magnet to help you grab things that have gotten out of reach. Such a cool stocking stuffer. Maybe for your husband or brother too. (Also: great reviews!)

Record Player, $ 45
This one has great vintage styling, and great reviews too. Click through for a ton more colors and textures.

Binging with Babish Cookbook, $ 14
Babish has a cooking show on Youtube and all of my kids are obsessed. Each episode he chooses something to cook that is mentioned or featured in a movie or TV show (thus the “binging” part of the title). We watch episodes as a family frequently.

Friendship Bracelet Maker, $ 23
Something to do while watching Binging with Babish.

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Mini Torch Flashlights — Set of Two, $ 7
These are great! You can focus the light, there’s a power-saving option if you’re low on batteries, and there’s a strobe mode. Each flashlight just needs 1 AA battery (not included).

Eno Hammock, $ 70
Lots of color options and a fan favorite. For your backyard, or a camping trip.

Reliable Portable Charger, $ 26
Because sometimes phones run out of power right when you need to call your parents and tell them about your change of plans.

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Canvas Roll-up Pencil Case, $ 9
Such a simple smart way to keep colored pencils or pens organized. Throw this in your bag and you’ll be ready to doodle at school or church or at your desk at home. The canvas is simple and handsome, but is also calling out to be drawn on. Note: this is just the pencil case, but it would pair well with the fineliner pens I listed above.

ToyerBee70mm Aperture 300mm Astronomical Refractor Telescope, $ 78
Looking at the stars has such a wide appeal. 

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Custom Tennis Balls, $ 12
I didn’t even know you could customize tennis balls till I saw these. What would you write? Silly stuff? Motivational coach-quotes? Your child’s name?

Tombow Brush Pens, $ 21
These are Olive’s favorite pens and they come in lots of different sets with other color options. Perfect for practicing hand lettering.

Bluetooth Shower Speaker — Certified Waterproof, $ 42
Do you have a kid that likes to sing in the shower?

Wreck This Journal, $ 9
These are so cool. They’re probably the coolest journal you’ll ever see and come with instructions on how to paint, poke, create, destroy, and wreck this book to create a journal as unique as your teen.

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Watercolor Paint Set, $ 16
I’ve never seen a watercolor palette presented in such a gorgeous way.

The To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before Paperback Collection, $ 18
The first one was made into a Netflix movie and it’s great (but the books are better, of course).

Gaming Floor Chair, $ 95
The blue and white one has an old school diner feel.

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The Great Wave Patch, $ 4
Sew it on a backpack or jacket.

Penny Board, $ 40
Skateboards are pricey! Start with one of these, and the investment won’t feel like such a punch. They’re cool, and they come in lots of different color combos.

Puffin in Bloom Book Collection, $ 32
This hardcover book set, with cover art by Rifle Paper Company, is stunning. It includes 4 titles that would improve any personal library — Little Women, Anne of Green Gables, A Little Princess, and Heidi.

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White Porcelain Bunny Lamp, $ 29
This softly glowing creature is endlessly appealing. What a gentle, sweet addition to any bedroom.

Slack Line Kit, $ 48
Have your kid watch some slackline videos on youtube and then head to the backyard or the park to learn a new skill.

Pink Clay Cleansing Soap Bar, $ 12
It’s 100% natural, 100% vegan, and has a reputation for being very effective. Pink clay is known for drawing out impurities and toxins. Just the thing for troubled teen complexions. And it smells amazing too.

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US Chess Federation Supreme Triple Weighted Chess Set, $ 37
Who else is obsessed with the Queen’s Gambit? This set looks so official, right? And the carrying case makes it easy to bring to Chess Club. No chess club at your school? No problem. Your teen can start one and add that to their college apps.

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3-inch Green Mini Clock, $ 12
It comes in 7 different colors, but the green and blue are my favorite. Oh, and it’s non-ticking! So it won’t bug anyone who likes to fall asleep in a quiet room. 

Washi Tape 20 Color Set, $ 17
This set of 20 includes a super assortment of brights and cools. My teens use washi like this to tape dried wild flowers to their mirrors and walls. There are endless uses for these pretty tapes.

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How to Stay Alive in the Woods, $ 16
It’s divided into 4 essential sections — Sustenance, Warmth, Orientation and Safety — and it has excellent reviews. Your teen will approach the upcoming zombie apocalypse with confidence.

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Sheep Pushpin Holder, $ 15
This wooly sheep comes with 75 white, round push pins — and doubles as an eraser. Can’t you just picture it sitting happily on their desk? (Could be fun for a co-worker too.)

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Tosca Accessory Stand, $ 36
A simple, good-looking organizer designed in Japan. It holds necklaces, bracelets, eyeglasses, a cell phone — and has a tray on the bottom for rings and watches.

A Gorgeous Slingshot, $ 30
Handmade in California, they come in tons of colors and styles — and the company offers felt ammo too.

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Punching Bag, $ 27
I hung one of these in my family room when we lived in New York and had 3 tiny kids. It was an amazing stress reliever! This full-size, affordable version comes flat, and can be filled with whatever you like. (Gloves too!)

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Hardcover Journal, $ 15
I LOVE this journal. It’s available with dot, rules, blank, or grid pages, it has an expandable pocket at the back, it lays flat when it opens so it’s easy to write in, and there’s a pen holder on the spine. Great looking and great details.

Starter Ukulele, $ 40
It comes in 10 different colors (I’m really feeling the black version), with all the needed accessories — Canvas Tote Bag, Strap and Picks. They’ll be playing Somewhere Over the Rainbow by New Year’s.

Pro Art Drawing Set, $ 13
Very affordable, with rave reviews. This set has everything you need to get drawing. Pair it with a sketchbook for a handsome gift.

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Your turn! What are you giving to the teens in your life this year? Feel free to add links in the comments. Does anything on this list spark a gift idea for you? I’d love to hear.

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Design Mom’s Favorite Christmas Bookshttps://designmom.com/design-moms-top-20-christmas-books/ https://designmom.com/design-moms-top-20-christmas-books/#comments Mon, 30 Nov 2020 13:00:00 +0000 https://designmom.com/?p=14973 Tis the season to read holiday books while snuggled up on the sofa. Here’s a list of our top family favorites — and a few new-to-us titles too.  Some of these books are good for older readers (even grown ups) and some for the littlest…

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